UK Domestic Violence ILR:
Can I Stay in the UK if My Marriage Ends Due to Domestic Abuse?

At The SmartMove2UK, we regularly support individuals who arrive in the UK on a Spouse Visa full of hope – only to face an unexpected and painful reality.

We recently advised a high-flying management professional who came to the UK after marriage, excited to begin a new chapter. Just two months in, she found herself facing emotional abuse, coercive control, and fear behind closed doors.

Her biggest worry was not the marriage ending – but her right to stay in the UK.

In 2002, the UK government introduced a crucial protection that allows survivors of abuse on a spousal or partner visa to apply for:

Indefinite Leave to Remain (ILR) under the Domestic Violence Rule (DVILR)
This legal safeguard was created after campaigners argued that too many women were being forced to choose between:

• Deportation
• Staying in abusive relationships

Today, UK law ensures:

• You can live in the UK independently of your partner
• You do not need to complete the standard 5-year residency requirement
• Your partner has no power to cancel your visa

Your immigration future should never be controlled by an abuser.

The UK Home Office has a broad definition including:

• Physical violence
• Psychological or emotional abuse
• Sexual abuse
• Financial control
• Coercive control (monitoring, isolation, threats)
• Visa or immigration-based threats

(e.g. “I’ll cancel your visa”, “You’ll be deported without me”)

Abuse by in-laws or extended family also qualifies, if it causes the breakdown of the relationship.

Any credible proof may be considered, such as:

• Police reports or call logs
• Hospital or GP medical evidence
• Photos of injuries or damage
• Messages showing threats or intimidation
• Statements from support organisations
• Court orders or legal action
• Letters from friends, neighbours, or employers

A police conviction is not mandatory

We recommend:

• Prioritise safety
• Gather and preserve evidence
• Seek legal advice as early as possible

You are not required to leave the UK.
You are not required to suffer for immigration reasons.

We understand the sensitivity and urgency of these cases.

Our experienced UK immigration solicitors provide:

• 100% confidential legal advice
• Expert assistance with DVILR applications
• Guidance to rebuild independence and security

Whether you are unsure, afraid or just need someone to talk to – we are here to support you.